My HR session...

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Time: 8:30 pm.

Venue: Chaitanya Engineering College, Visakhapatnam.

Company: Virtusa.

Volunteer: “Pavana Sree Ram Murthy Kolluru”

(I was astonished listening to my name since I was in a notion that I was the last one . I entered the room. There were two HRs .One was sitting and the other was standing.)

HR1 was looking at me as if I was an alien and shouted at me “There is something wrong with you man.There is something wrong in the way you tucked in your shirt”.

HR2: What is your hip size?

I:(feeling really tensed and ashamed but with the same expression) 28 sir.

HR1: Please be seated man.

HR2:(checking my percentage)Oh! Why is this decline in percentage from 95 in intermediate to 73 in B tech.

I: Actually sir,in intermediate I have completely concentrated on my education where as in B Tech I have realised that communication skills are more important and accordingly I have chanelised my efforts.

HR 1:(checked my writing skills paper in which I have written strengths, weaknesses and a story)

Oh shit! Is this a story.what kind of story is this!!

I: It is the story of King Dasaradha sir.

HR2 : What is the moral of the story?

I : One should not react to a situation without knowing the fact sir.

HR2: Is this resume written by you?

I:yes sir.

HR1 :(seeing that I have used some new words in my story) What is the meaning of the word “Belligerent”

I:I know the word sir,but it is not striking right now.I think it is “hard working”

HR1:Congratulations!!! you are absolutely “wrong...”

HR1 :(skimming through my resume)So, you are interested in writing poetry in english.Who is the best poet in the world?

I: Sri Rabindranath Tagore sir..

HR 1: So , you are going write a poetry before me...

I:(astonished)Shall I write the one I have already written or...

HR1 :No no..you are going to write a poem on my friend (pointing at HR2)

I:Okay sir..(While I was writing poem he was staring at my story and suddenly started scribbling my story inorder to see my expression.I just reacted with a little smile and continued writing poem)

HR1: Okay..its enough..read it out...

I: “you are calm and still

           but have much skill

     

    your face has charm

           which makes us ....”

HR2: (clapping)

HR1: You are done man...thankyou..you may leave...

HR2: Thank you..

I:Thank you sir..

oh girl ..sorry..

oh girl sorry girl..oh girl sorry..

if you see a guy, they say you like him..

if you talk to a guy, they say you love him..

if you walk with a guy, they say you are engaged..

if you share with a guy, they say you are crossing limits..

sorry oh girl , sorry..

they even don't know your name

                                           but they say all this..

they don't know who the guy is

                                           but assume all this..

they add spices to this..

                                          they spread all this..

I swear oh girl I swear..

I will never take wrong until I learn what you really are..

I will neither create nor spread a rumor..

I will never hurt you even if you are really wrong for you are a human and remember the quote is not

                                                   “to err is man”

but it is                                      “to err is human”

                                                                                                                                       -sreeram kolluru

                            Copyright©2012 sreeram kolluru .All Rights Reserved.

Selection-Confusion

Everyone needs someone to share their feelings and daily NEWS and everyone finds one.A best relation happens when there is a mutual exchange of feelings between two people .If one finds a person to share one's feeling and the person in turn finds someone else, that remains as a fragile relation.Everyone has a right to select his/her relation .No one can blame them or demand a companionship.Obviously, the selection process is effected by many factors in ones life.People generally tend to share things with those they live for most of the time.Then, what about those people who have different companies in different times of a day.They will certainly be in a great confusion.They find every relation fluttering around them without letting them decide whether it is a reliable one or not. In this case it is not our counterpart's mistake if they could not value us completely.Some people argue that people should not get carried away with the simple factor I have mentioned above.Instead, they have to vote for the honesty in a person and then start a relationship.That is quite puristic I feel.Tell me who generally searches for perfect honesty in any person.Everyone has his/her own definitions of honesty.And if people find the traces of their own definition in some person they try to make a relationship with them(obviously with those they spend much time with).Then what about those whom I have left in confusion.I am sorry.Am in the same confusion now.Let me get out of that and I'll tell you what.

Anyway, people should maintain some etiquettes of value response to those who value them even though their colours of honesty dont match .Never let them think of breaking the bond(even if it is fragile).

                                                                                   -sreeram kolluru

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My Sister..

                            

“ Tammudu…am leaving to school...you have to come by yourself…bye..” my sister pretends as if she was stepping down a five stepped staircase in front of my house. A sudden rocket of punctuality jets me away from mirror to get ready as fast as a magician performs his tricks. ha ha..a memory that always allows me to walk through the playful childhood my sister and I had together.

Ah well often we used to have many skirmishes hollering at each other for our favourite T V channels, smacking each other for someone ate some other’s quota of delicious sweets my mother made. All the puny, teeny, gravityless vengeance lasted not more than a few minutes..within no time we used to have a sensuous chat with loud guffaws.

My mom often says that only one will know the value of a relation when the operands are away from each other. hmmm.. thats true.. I never felt like my sister is caring for me in a special manner because she cared for me always that I am completely immersed in her care since I knew her..But as the time and tradition drifted us apart I felt the void air with no love and affection protecting me. Then , I have realized the care my sister showered on me .Now, even a glimpse of my mobile singing and blinking “ Akka Bengaluru “ would tantalize me and am on a brink of loud loving rhapsodic “HELLO !!!”

Our conversation these days is tightly packed with emotions and affection. A gifted relation between siblings should never be faded by the busy times of our livelihood. Don’t forget that the canopy of one’s career is characterized by one’s attitude towards one’s family and relationships. Sisters provide an ocean of freedom and support when “a hand please or into the hades of under earth “ kind of situations arise.

I always wonder whether there is any force in this universe that can badly vitiate this love in sisterhood. To be frank I have seen the cases where it struck me a stunning “yes!”. Moneymania did it .They quarrel for properties and patrimony and break their relations in the name of unnecessary pride . Please remember that not a wad of notes pats you when you are in grief. Never let your own life abandoned by your siblings who show your life through them. Feel fortunate that you are in such a lattice of love that binds you , frees you ,leads you and stands behind you in every walk of your life...

                                     An ovation of respects to my dearest sister Sindhuvu Dasari…

                                                   Dedicated to all the sisters in this world…

                                    (hearty thanks to Mrs Sirisha Javvaji for helping me redacting the article)

                                        HAPPY RAKSHABANDHAN

 

                                                                                 -sreeram kolluru

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‘I’

   The word “I” dangles with every perception that is exuded or thwarted purposefully by one…last night a sporadically blinking star in the firmament kept hovering directly above my belly and she became conspicuous..I pretended apathy but  tried having a vantage point that can show me her thoughts ..I saw that she is whimpering and sharing her thoughts with her conscience…

“ I made this all.. I always thought to have my light for my own delight and I always wanted to have a whale of time frolicking in my own brightness…that is the reason the lord cursed me with less importance and my sister Ms  Moon has earned the tiara of night princess since she always has an altruistic heart and she is never foolish being selfish…”

    This resembles a bed time story my grand ma used  to tell me when I was a child. But it also resembles many souls ruing their deeds of selfishness…

    It is always something that is laughed at  “ our very love towards our very own self ”..we don’t even let our mirror image to get tainted in our lifetime…Being selfish is a merely a  notion of getting complete benefit of something so that no other can have the benefit out it…But the pristine “new “definition of selfishness asks you to be so prudent that  any act you perform or conform to (you feel so) should have first intention to victimize others and in turn you are benefited….A rational thought will make me look like a prank when I could not throw a rejoinder if you pose me  “ how can one not think about one’s own self ?? “. Ya , it is really an obligation of every divine element on this earth to take care of itself..but that care should not turn into ego leading to the tampering of some other’s  duty to take care for him/herself…

   “first self, next rest “ is an aphorism of the world which says “ the word self is not disjoint of the world around you and the word rest is not disjoint of the world within you….”

                                                                             -sreeram kolluru

    

                                                      

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HOW TO AVOID FALLING IN LOVE****

There are two things people always elide analyzing in their thought catalogue. They are “feelings” and “relations”. Someone who knows the semantics and importance of a pure relation will always have their “feelings” in control. One of the dangerous feelings of this so called agile age of teens is something named “love”.  

Here comes the first case :

              It is a dramatic situation you face and adorn it saying “love at first sight”. When you think you are attracted by him/her, apply the technique of thwarting. Keep yourself busy with some other work, not thinking about him/her. If you do this for some threshold amount of time you will become normal. The result will let you know the property of attraction i.e. prop.  of getting bored so easily after very few days. If you get committed before that threshold period ,you will fall in a state of dai-dilemma which am gonna discuss later.

Next comes case two :

            You got a good friend and you are maintaining a good mixed double relation with him/her. It is never a mistake and sometimes you get some (I don’t  want to mention the word –ve) feelings inducing you to rename the relation as love. In this case some powerful tool called “concept of vision ” helps you. Have a vision of your future .Whenever you feel like loving ,just let the vision conquer your thoughts and how an affair of love hinders your career’s growth or a good relationship .It makes everything alright. But this needs patience and practice. Keep being touch with your parents and they remind you, your responsibilities.

               Here are some other cases where you are already in love .I mean you are in a state of dai-dilemma where you are daily in a sort of dilemma .It eats up all your focus and reflects its’ affects in your lifestyle. Remember, it’s no mistake in breaking up in such situation. ”An Introspection led Realization is always Appreciable (AIRA)”. Don’t think about others and there is nothing to feel guilty about. It is simply one of many experiences in your life .

                But here are some people who have a better insight of what I have spoken until now and even then they need a temporary half making lust, a synonym for love. I want to be shameless saying that it is nothing less than p_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _n. Why don’t people learn the moral bindings of a society?? Why don’t they know the values of a family??  I just want to beg them preach the principle of “AIRA” .Please let the culture of our country live forever…

            Impact of friends in all the above cases is really high (highly inflammable and arousing).. but it is our duty to be aware of our own issues and mind ..we can’t blame others for anything..

                                                                                          -sreeram kolluru

*Love in this article means attraction or infatuation.

*This article is written without any discrimination under the grounds of gender.

*This article doesn’t only deal with prevention but also the cure.

*This article is completely based on my own ideologies and some inspirations and observations of mine.

                                                               

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sachin's succeeded philosophy..

 

                                       

       Paulo Coelho says "Miracles only happen if you believe in miracles” so did Sachin Tendulkar and he himself has become a miracle of international Cricket. Many know about his play, but only knowing about his attitude will tell us what he really is…The will power Sachin has epitomized all these days  has not only brought  laurels to his personal self  but also has taken our country to greater heights. ..

        There is always a lot more to learn from the most successful persons along with their strategic modus operandi in their careers. When asked about his secret mantra Sachin, with his natural and hearty smile says “Cricket is my first love .I followed my passion and my dream (playing for India) came true”. Our little master gives equal importance to his profession and his family. “You must also learn to value the contribution of your family to your success and respect your better half”, says he emphasizing the role his quality time with his family members and close friends has played in his successful career. Sachin always tries  to live with the present  so that he can be away from pressure .In his view if one’s mind is preoccupied with past failures, or is anticipating future ones, then the pressure(on mind) builds.

         The 38 year old batting veteran ,when someone asked about his critics said “when stones are thrown at you , you will turn them into milestones” .This reflection of Sachin reflects his positive “never give up policy” that brought him the happy tears when the world cup 2011 is won by Indian cricket team.

        The winning team captain M.S.Dhoni sharing his lessons from Sachin’s life style said “Every time he turns up for a practice session or a game he is 100% there, he never turns up for the sake of it. His attitude has never changed for the last 21 years”

         Let us congratulate him on his ton tons milestone and make him our way of life rather than confining him to the sports’ circle.

** “It is lonely at the top” people say. If according to cricket lovers, I am on top of the world, I would say, “I may be on the top, but I am certainly not lonely. I have many great people around me to share my success with.”   -Sachin Tendulkar **

                                                                                       
                                   -Sreeram Kolluru 

                          

                                                             

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POSITIVE -negative

                                   

Petals of positivity painting you

                     Always make you spurious

Let some osmosis take place

                    Live your life to the fullest

Your body smells the same

                    No matter what you are

Your eyes dwell with life

                   Only when you are  “the”

Noon never shows your shadow

                   Don’t think it can’t

Lend some “not” for some slot

                  Be aware with plus plus not

                                                                                                                               -sreeram kolluru

                                                                  Copyright©2012 sreeram kolluru .All Rights Reserved.

think positive..

       Pull

   Out

   Selfishness

   In

   Thought  &

   It gives

   Vibrant

   Energy