There are two
things people always elide analyzing in their thought catalogue. They are
“feelings” and “relations”. Someone who knows the semantics and importance of a
pure relation will always have their “feelings” in control. One of the
dangerous feelings of this so called agile age of teens is something named
“love”.
Here comes
the first case :
It is a dramatic situation you face and adorn
it saying “love at first sight”. When you think you are attracted by him/her,
apply the technique of thwarting. Keep yourself busy with some other work, not
thinking about him/her. If you do this for some threshold amount of time you
will become normal. The result will let you know the property of attraction
i.e. prop. of getting bored so easily
after very few days. If you get committed before that threshold period ,you
will fall in a state of dai-dilemma which am gonna discuss later.
Next comes
case two :
You got a good friend and you are
maintaining a good mixed double relation with him/her. It is never a mistake
and sometimes you get some (I don’t want
to mention the word –ve) feelings inducing you to rename the relation as love.
In this case some powerful tool called “concept of vision ” helps you. Have a
vision of your future .Whenever you feel like loving ,just let the vision
conquer your thoughts and how an affair of love hinders your career’s growth or
a good relationship .It makes everything alright. But this needs patience and
practice. Keep being touch with your parents and they remind you, your
responsibilities.
Here are some other cases where
you are already in love .I mean you are in a state of dai-dilemma where you are
daily in a sort of dilemma .It eats up all your focus and reflects its’ affects
in your lifestyle. Remember, it’s no mistake in breaking up in such situation. ”An
Introspection led Realization is always Appreciable (AIRA)”. Don’t think about
others and there is nothing to feel guilty about. It is simply one of many
experiences in your life .
But here are some people who
have a better insight of what I have spoken until now and even then they need a
temporary half making lust, a synonym for love. I want to be shameless saying
that it is nothing less than p_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _n. Why don’t people learn the moral
bindings of a society?? Why don’t they know the values of a family?? I just want to beg them preach the principle
of “AIRA” .Please let the culture of our country live forever…
Impact of friends in all the above
cases is really high (highly inflammable and arousing).. but it is our duty to
be aware of our own issues and mind ..we can’t blame others for anything..
-sreeram
kolluru
*Love in this
article means attraction or infatuation.
*This article
is written without any discrimination under the grounds of gender.
*This article
doesn’t only deal with prevention but also the cure.
*This article
is completely based on my own ideologies and some inspirations and observations
of mine.
